The Art of Sensuous Play©

Hello Sensuous Women and Men!!!

The last three (3) weeks has been phenomenal! Congratulations to our new President-Elect Barack Obama and his lovely wife Michelle. May God continue to bless them as they seek to serve our nation and create the life and marriage of "their" dreams.

We have begun our vendor selection process and it has been fun sitting down and talking with potential “Prosperity Partners” and learning firsthand your perspective on love and marriage as well as your insight on how your services can help us improve the intimate act of communication and enhance marriages between husbands and wives. We appreciate your inspiring and powerful words of encouragement as we seek to take our company and the services that we provide to the next level.

Please be mindful that our criteria for selection are based on the information that is found on our website under the link “Prosperity Partners.” Also we seek to partner with companies who are able to get past the role of Pastor and Wife and see us through the eyes of Gary and Greta, a husband and wife who have a passion for helping lovers and helpmates be successful in their love connection. We seek to create an environment that is bias free and non-judgmental.

We have been busy getting prepared for our first public “Sensuous Event,” The Art of Sensuous Play©. This is a Wine Tasting Costume Party and I must say that we are excited about the opportunity to work with Dan McCarthy, Wine Connoisseur and Owner of Cost Plus Wine Shoppe in the Eastern Market District in Detroit, Michigan.

Gary and I have been frequenting this Detroit Gem off and on for the last twenty-three (23) years and as a result Cost Plus Wine Shoppe and its staff has developed a special place in our heart. Our first introduction to this establishment happened as we were preparing for our wedding ceremony. It was the individual attention and the superb customer service that kept us coming back. We have always found the staff to be very friendly, approachable and knowledgeable about the wine that they sold as well as the foods that would compliment and make the feast that we were preparing more special. It is wonderful to walk into a business establishment and feel welcomed.

The picture that you are looking at is Kim McCarthy, Dan's lovely wife and helpmate along with some of the wine products that they provide on their shelves. If you live in the metro Detroit area and is in the market for wine, please stop by Cost Plus Wine Shoppe and make sure to tell Dan and Kim that we sent you. They will make sure that you get a great wine that is in line with your budget.

Gary and I believe wholeheartedly that a “husband and wife who play together, stay together.” In our love and marriage, this recreational need for fun and laughter is high on our list of priorities. Spending time together and enjoying each others’ company has become more important to us as we age and mature. This is the reason we got married in the first place….to spend time more time with each other. We enjoyed each other so much while we were dating that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together having fun and experiencing life. We are ONE forever.

We have come to learn that setting aside time to play and have fun is essential to building a successful marriage. Play is an opportunity to build an intimate connection with your lover and helpmate that re-kindles excitement and laughter in your love that you had while you were dating. It keeps the marriage fresh and exciting and the lovers young and vibrant. It also creates good conversation as you reminiscence and talk about all the fun that you had. Play is an aphrodisiac to good feelings and the flow of love.

Taking time out to play is the hardest thing for a husband and wife to do. We have a tendency to put the needs of others first and the needs of our lovers and helpmates last. We have the belief that giving ourselves to others is more important than giving ourselves to each other. We take each other love for granted as we seek to build success outside of our marriage. We let the need to be successful in our career/business, the responsibility of raising children, making other people happy and our outside interests become more important than the need to spend time with each other as lovers and friends. We let the sizzle that we have for each other while we were dating dry up and burn out. We do not keep the flames going in our marriage. As a result, we walk around feeling neglected, unloved and disillusioned; not to mention, disconnected and tired of our love union.

The Art of Sensuous Play© is a learning opportunity that is designed to help the husband and wife set time aside with each other and create a love connection that is fun, romantic, sensuous and sexy.

The purpose of this event is to introduce the concept of Tantra and educate the audience on developing and implementing a “Love Plan” that includes the following elements of Sensuous Play:

 The Art of Communication©
 The Need for a Love Connection©
 Preparation of a Tantra Love Feast©
 Dressing for SEXcess©
 Gratitude and Appreciation©

We believe that a husband and wife can enjoy a lifetime of love that continues to grow and develop as they mature. We advocate that the husband and wife have “more romance, more intimacy, more fun, more often.”

This week, I want to encourage you to do something that is playful and fun. I am sure you have a reason to celebrate your love union. Set aside some uninterrupted time where you can be yourself and laugh. Limit the conversation to your dreams and how you want your marriage and love to be. Write it down so that you can see what you want on paper. Talk about your individual and collective dream. What is it that you want to do together? What legacy do you want to leave behind? How do you see yourself accomplishing your dream? Get some wine, cheese, strawberries, grapes and chocolate to set the mood for conversation and laughter. Make sure to light your candles and if you like incense, please feel free to use it. Put on some sexy sensuous attire and plan your future. It is time to get down to the business of Love. Remember to start this play session in prayer. You do not want to leave God out of this important part of your life and marriage. You are planning for success.

For those that are in the beginning stages of Love Development and the cultivation of your ONEness, we suggest that you set aside fifteen (15) hours a week to have fun. That time is strictly yours and do not belong to anyone else. Be selfish with it. Put each other in your calendar and make it a priority. Once it is in writing you are both committed to making sure that you have play time. DO NOT BREAK A DATE! Play is a participative sport that requires the creative abilities and effort from both the husband and wife. It is non-gender specific and role based. Tell each other what you want to experience in those fifteen (15) hours and make it so. No excuses. Start dating again.

When we first started this practice and to help us accomplish our fifteen (15)hour goal, Gary and I would wake up two (2) hours early so that we could have some uninterrupted time together. We also made sure we went out on a date every Thursday evening. This required discipline and a commitment to our marriage and each other. We had a “YES” attitude even if we did not feel like playing. We understood that we were in the process of developing a new habit, so we had to be patient with each other and ourselves. We knew that spending time together would take practice and a change in our behavior and demeanor. In other words, do not be hard on yourselves. Once you make the commitment to play, stick with it. Do not get detoured and bogged down with life. It will go on. Do not let anything come between you and your love.

I hope to see you at our upcoming Sensuous Event. Take care and may you be abundantly blessed in your play as you seek to co-create the marriage and life of your dreams!

All good things,

Sensuous Sexy Greta™




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