Honoring Your Good!©
Hello Sensuous Women and Men!!!
I hope that you had a week of prosperity and bliss with your lover and helpmate. Do not forget to tell each other how much you love each other. This should be a daily practice and mentioned several times throughout the day. I know that I appreciate hearing these words from Gary throughout the day. It helps to fuel my soul. For us, saying “I love you” is a time when we stop and give each other our undivided attention…as we look deeply into each other eyes. This act of connection can last a mere sixty (60) seconds and is limitless which means, that you can practice it as much as you want, any time of the day. Personally, I do not think you can utter the words, “I love you” to the one that you are with, enough. To make this connection even better, end with a long embrace. In other words, hug each other. If you are doing this already, I applaud you. If not, I challenge you to implement this practice in your daily interaction for the next ten (10) days. Make it a game. I am sure you will leave each other feeling good and not to mention "LOVED UP!!!"
As usual, I would like to express gratitude to those who took the time out of their busy schedules and listened to the telecast interview with Allana Pratt and myself. I have gotten back some interesting and enlightening feedback. In our conversations and email correspondence, I have heard words like "Touching, Fantastic, Powerful, or statements like ...Your story moved me; I have felt and feel the same way; I have never thought to pray before or during lovemaking and one that I found to be most interesting, You sound professional." Not sure what that means…however, I will embrace it.
If you have not heard the telecast interview, it is still available for you to listen at http://tinyurl.com/GretaRecommends. If you feel compelled, register for the LIVE Webcast Telesummit; I am sure that you will be empowered by the wisdom and stories of these powerful accomplished women.
Also, I want to make sure that I give a shout out to Gail Sinclair, a wonderful and delightful goddess that I met two (2) years ago at the MEGA Book Marketing University in Los Angeles for making this opportunity possible. You know that I love you girl and I cannot wait to see you again. I look forward to working with you as we open the minds and hearts of women/men on the emotional, spiritual and sexual transformation and healing powers of Sacred Pole Dancing. All I can say is, "YOU ROCK!!!!" I am so grateful that God placed you in my space.
So that you understand why I refer to my "Sensuous Friend" as a "goddess," it is very simple. In Tantra, the word “god” and “goddess” refer to treating yourself and others with respect and honor while acknowledging their good. It is a woman who is tune with her feminine/sexual power or her female self. As I see it, a "goddess" is a woman who is at peace emotionally, mentally, spiritually and sexually and is comfortable with herself physically. There is no shame about her body or how she chooses to express herself as a woman, wife, lover and helpmate.
In other words, she is in ALIGNMENT or in harmony with herself emotionally, mentally, spiritually and sexually. She is ONE with herself and God and has rid herself of all jealousy, envy, hatred, distrust, division and separation and embraces Good for herself and others. She can see beyond the petty differences and do not concern herself with the color of a person’s skin, sexual orientation, nationality, religion, professional status, educational level, age, gender, height, weight, body type, past and current behavior, past and current decisions, or anything else that would allow her to exhibit prejudice or find fault with another person. In so doing, she can love, honor and respect other women and men regardless of their path, life experiences or personal beliefs. In the eyes and heart of a "goddess," every person has value or worth.
I believe that every woman is a "goddess" whether or not she embraces that is up to her. We all have the capacity to be a provider, protector, lover, healer, nurturing mother, loving and nurturing wife, seducer, hunter, wild, adventurous, romantic, passionate and depending on the situation, strong and forceful. It is this feminine power that I recognize, embrace and honor in myself and other women.
In addition, I believe that every male is a "god" and that he should be honored and respected for his masculine/sexual power and how he chooses to express himself as a man. For me, a "god" embodies the same characteristics of a goddess; he is a provider, protector, lover healer, hunter, strong, forceful, nurturing father, loving and nurturing husband, romantic, passionate, seducer and a healer. He is emotionally, mentally, spiritually and sexually in tune with himself and is not afraid to surrender to his goodness. He is in ALIGNMENT or at peace and ONE with himself and God and has rid himself of all jealousy, envy, hatred, distrust, division and separation and embraces the Good for himself and others. In essence, a "god" is simply the mirror reflection of his "goddess.” They complement each other in love and are equal partners.
In the spiritual practice of Tantra, these are the characteristics or "god like" qualities in each other that we worship as a husband and wife. These are things that we admire and appreciate in each other. These are the attributes or strengths that we uplift and embrace. Please note: worship does not mean that a wife follows her husband blindly and vice versa or that one in the marriage has control or power over the other. It simply means that the husband and wife serve each other equally and enthusiastically from the highest state of their personal power and with mutual respect. For Gary and I, worship simply means that we honor and accept the good in each other while appreciating and respecting the way we were created as a male and female. No gender is better than the other. The key in our marriage is to help each other reach their fullest potential. It is this realization that makes the husband and wife a powerful force and it is from this space that they become ONE.
This week, look for the god/goddess (good) in yourself and each other. If you cannot see the good in yourself, you will not be able to see the good in your husband or wife and not to mention other people. Make a list of all the things you like (love) about yourself. Attempt to look beyond your perceived flaws. Give yourself some compassion.
This love creation exercise will lead you to a path of self-discovery and help you define who you are and the kind of person that you want to cultivate or manifest in your marriage and life. Start your list with the powerful affirmative statement of "I AM." For example:
I AM woman that has a prosperous mindset and an entrepreneurial spirit.
I AM a woman that is self-assured and believes in the impossible.
I AM a woman who has a heart and respect for herself, God and her husband.
I AM a woman with a sense of humor; the ability to laugh is important to me.
I AM a woman with a sense of adventure; I am not afraid to explore and expand.
I AM a woman who has an expansive intellect with a spirit of continuous learning.
I AM a woman who is Sensuous, Sexy, Powerful, Complete and whole!
These are some of the attributes or qualities that I see in myself and the ones that I nurture and develop on a continuous basis. I am certain that your "I AM" will be different for you. Embrace your uniqueness. Have fun with this exercise and do not rush through it. Give it some thought. Go inward and meditate on what you want to create, how you want to express yourself, who you wish to become and write it down. Let your heart speak to you. Your "I AM" is a roadmap to your success.
Finally, Gary A. as I affectionately call him will be sharing his perspective and insights with you on Wednesdays. I am anxious to read and discover how he has incorporated the concept of "god and goddess" into his life, our marriage and how this practice of seeing me as his "goddess" and me worshipping and honoring him as my "god" has made him a better husband, lover, helpmate and friend.
Take care and may God continue to bless you as you co-create the marriage and life of your dreams!
All good things,
Sensuous Sexy Greta™
"Copyright 2008 Sensuous Sexy Greta™. All Rights reserved"
I hope that you had a week of prosperity and bliss with your lover and helpmate. Do not forget to tell each other how much you love each other. This should be a daily practice and mentioned several times throughout the day. I know that I appreciate hearing these words from Gary throughout the day. It helps to fuel my soul. For us, saying “I love you” is a time when we stop and give each other our undivided attention…as we look deeply into each other eyes. This act of connection can last a mere sixty (60) seconds and is limitless which means, that you can practice it as much as you want, any time of the day. Personally, I do not think you can utter the words, “I love you” to the one that you are with, enough. To make this connection even better, end with a long embrace. In other words, hug each other. If you are doing this already, I applaud you. If not, I challenge you to implement this practice in your daily interaction for the next ten (10) days. Make it a game. I am sure you will leave each other feeling good and not to mention "LOVED UP!!!"
As usual, I would like to express gratitude to those who took the time out of their busy schedules and listened to the telecast interview with Allana Pratt and myself. I have gotten back some interesting and enlightening feedback. In our conversations and email correspondence, I have heard words like "Touching, Fantastic, Powerful, or statements like ...Your story moved me; I have felt and feel the same way; I have never thought to pray before or during lovemaking and one that I found to be most interesting, You sound professional." Not sure what that means…however, I will embrace it.
If you have not heard the telecast interview, it is still available for you to listen at http://tinyurl.com/GretaRecommends. If you feel compelled, register for the LIVE Webcast Telesummit; I am sure that you will be empowered by the wisdom and stories of these powerful accomplished women.
Also, I want to make sure that I give a shout out to Gail Sinclair, a wonderful and delightful goddess that I met two (2) years ago at the MEGA Book Marketing University in Los Angeles for making this opportunity possible. You know that I love you girl and I cannot wait to see you again. I look forward to working with you as we open the minds and hearts of women/men on the emotional, spiritual and sexual transformation and healing powers of Sacred Pole Dancing. All I can say is, "YOU ROCK!!!!" I am so grateful that God placed you in my space.
So that you understand why I refer to my "Sensuous Friend" as a "goddess," it is very simple. In Tantra, the word “god” and “goddess” refer to treating yourself and others with respect and honor while acknowledging their good. It is a woman who is tune with her feminine/sexual power or her female self. As I see it, a "goddess" is a woman who is at peace emotionally, mentally, spiritually and sexually and is comfortable with herself physically. There is no shame about her body or how she chooses to express herself as a woman, wife, lover and helpmate.
In other words, she is in ALIGNMENT or in harmony with herself emotionally, mentally, spiritually and sexually. She is ONE with herself and God and has rid herself of all jealousy, envy, hatred, distrust, division and separation and embraces Good for herself and others. She can see beyond the petty differences and do not concern herself with the color of a person’s skin, sexual orientation, nationality, religion, professional status, educational level, age, gender, height, weight, body type, past and current behavior, past and current decisions, or anything else that would allow her to exhibit prejudice or find fault with another person. In so doing, she can love, honor and respect other women and men regardless of their path, life experiences or personal beliefs. In the eyes and heart of a "goddess," every person has value or worth.
I believe that every woman is a "goddess" whether or not she embraces that is up to her. We all have the capacity to be a provider, protector, lover, healer, nurturing mother, loving and nurturing wife, seducer, hunter, wild, adventurous, romantic, passionate and depending on the situation, strong and forceful. It is this feminine power that I recognize, embrace and honor in myself and other women.
In addition, I believe that every male is a "god" and that he should be honored and respected for his masculine/sexual power and how he chooses to express himself as a man. For me, a "god" embodies the same characteristics of a goddess; he is a provider, protector, lover healer, hunter, strong, forceful, nurturing father, loving and nurturing husband, romantic, passionate, seducer and a healer. He is emotionally, mentally, spiritually and sexually in tune with himself and is not afraid to surrender to his goodness. He is in ALIGNMENT or at peace and ONE with himself and God and has rid himself of all jealousy, envy, hatred, distrust, division and separation and embraces the Good for himself and others. In essence, a "god" is simply the mirror reflection of his "goddess.” They complement each other in love and are equal partners.
In the spiritual practice of Tantra, these are the characteristics or "god like" qualities in each other that we worship as a husband and wife. These are things that we admire and appreciate in each other. These are the attributes or strengths that we uplift and embrace. Please note: worship does not mean that a wife follows her husband blindly and vice versa or that one in the marriage has control or power over the other. It simply means that the husband and wife serve each other equally and enthusiastically from the highest state of their personal power and with mutual respect. For Gary and I, worship simply means that we honor and accept the good in each other while appreciating and respecting the way we were created as a male and female. No gender is better than the other. The key in our marriage is to help each other reach their fullest potential. It is this realization that makes the husband and wife a powerful force and it is from this space that they become ONE.
This week, look for the god/goddess (good) in yourself and each other. If you cannot see the good in yourself, you will not be able to see the good in your husband or wife and not to mention other people. Make a list of all the things you like (love) about yourself. Attempt to look beyond your perceived flaws. Give yourself some compassion.
This love creation exercise will lead you to a path of self-discovery and help you define who you are and the kind of person that you want to cultivate or manifest in your marriage and life. Start your list with the powerful affirmative statement of "I AM." For example:
I AM woman that has a prosperous mindset and an entrepreneurial spirit.
I AM a woman that is self-assured and believes in the impossible.
I AM a woman who has a heart and respect for herself, God and her husband.
I AM a woman with a sense of humor; the ability to laugh is important to me.
I AM a woman with a sense of adventure; I am not afraid to explore and expand.
I AM a woman who has an expansive intellect with a spirit of continuous learning.
I AM a woman who is Sensuous, Sexy, Powerful, Complete and whole!
These are some of the attributes or qualities that I see in myself and the ones that I nurture and develop on a continuous basis. I am certain that your "I AM" will be different for you. Embrace your uniqueness. Have fun with this exercise and do not rush through it. Give it some thought. Go inward and meditate on what you want to create, how you want to express yourself, who you wish to become and write it down. Let your heart speak to you. Your "I AM" is a roadmap to your success.
Finally, Gary A. as I affectionately call him will be sharing his perspective and insights with you on Wednesdays. I am anxious to read and discover how he has incorporated the concept of "god and goddess" into his life, our marriage and how this practice of seeing me as his "goddess" and me worshipping and honoring him as my "god" has made him a better husband, lover, helpmate and friend.
Take care and may God continue to bless you as you co-create the marriage and life of your dreams!
All good things,
Sensuous Sexy Greta™
"Copyright 2008 Sensuous Sexy Greta™. All Rights reserved"
posted by Greta D. Johnson-Williams | 6:24 PM
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