The Importance of Kissing©

Hello Sensuous Women and Men!!!!

As usual, I pray that this blog finds you at peace with yourself and your loved ones. It has been awhile since I last “took” the time to sit down and write. However, sometimes you have to take time out for yourself and attempt to bring your life back into focus and decide for yourself what is important so that you can take the next step forward.

Since my last writing, Gary and I have celebrated several milestones, my 48th birthday, his 50th birthday and our 25th Wedding Anniversary. To be honest, it feels strange to see my life moving so fast. Yet, I will continue to embrace all that life bring and live it to the fullest as I seek to live in the moment of NOW.

I feel excited and rejuvenated as Gary and I continue to move forward in our ONEness. We have gotten some great feedback on the Sensuous Lovenotes™ so thank you for your input. Your input lets us know that we are on the right track. Our Prosperity Partner, Corey Pope, owner of www.City2CityTV.com is responsible for putting it together. He is the past owner of a Metro PCS franchise and is an up and coming Videographer who needs our support. He has great ideas on how to help your business grow and expand with use of technology.

He is also single and is looking for a wife. If there are Single Business Owners out there who has a positive mindset and believe that they can “complement” this free spirit who has a heart for children, email me. Sensuous Seminars, L.L.C. is responsible for the screening process. More details about “Kibwe is Looking for a Wife” will be announced in a subsequent blog.

Also, thank you to those who came to visit our booth at the Russell Bazaar. It was great connecting with some of you again. Your presence inspired us. Unfortunately, I must admit that the weekend was most draining. Those that visited our booth were either in an unhappy marriage, divorced or had made the decision to never marry again. I was surprised that “no one” spoke lovingly toward this union or each other. Hearing your stories and the pain in your voices was both grueling and heartbreaking.

Our prayers go out to those who are struggling to keep their love and marriage together. We do know how difficult it is to build love when you cannot seem to connect. However, I must admit that if men and women do not learn how to talk to and respect each other, our families and the love that we seek to create as a husband and wife is doomed.

Sometimes we forget why we got married in the first place and allow outside forces to come between our marriages and destroy our love for each other. We want to change each other rather than find ways to complement and enhance each other. As a husband and wife, it is impossible to move into your ONEness if you are still holding grudges and are attempting to make each other feel guilty for the pain for which "you" are both responsible. Pain is a two (2) way street. Everyone has feelings even if they do not show it.

To help you get back on track in Love and Marriage, Gary and I would like for you to join us on “Sex In The Morning Show with Gary A. & Greta™.” This show is designed to help you bring spice back into your marriage and show you ways on how to create a marriage that is Romantic, Fun, Passionate, Intimate and Spiritual.

This week topic of discussion will be on “Kissing” and the benefits of implementing this love creation strategy in your daily routine. It is part of our “Affection Series” and is based on the need for affection between husbands and wives is based on the book, “His Needs/Her Needs” by Dr. Williard F. Harley, Jr.

Kissing is a way to build romance and keep the fires burning in a marriage. It is a way that a husband and wife show affection and love for each other. It is a way to create fun, intimacy and break down the barrier for communication.

Although we may have the desire to kiss each other, the feeling to connect in this manner has a tendency to fade if we do not nurture and develop it, particularly if we are holding grudges or are disappointed in our love. For Gary and I, "Kissing" is a way to show appreciation for an act of love that was displayed or to apologize for pain that we may have caused each other. “Kiss and Make Up” is our mantra.

This week as you seek to create intimacy in your busy lives, take a moment before you leave the house in the morning to connect with your lips. Give each other your undivided attention before you start your day. How you decide to Kiss and for how long is up to you.

Do not make this a chore. If you do not feel like kissing, then don’t. Kissing should be entered into with a spirit of anticipation, generosity, love, forgiveness, playfulness and mutual consent. You do not want to enter into this connection with a spirit of obligation or with the intent to manipulate or punish. Both partners have to be willing to partake in this pleasure or else the environment for Love will not be created or have a chance to grow.

Below is a video presentation of Greta's Sensuous Talks™ on "The Importance of Kissing" and the need to apply this Love Creation Strategy in your marriage.

In order to get the benefits of creating intimacy with each other, it is our desire that you take the practice of Kissing seriously and apply it to your marriage on a daily basis. Love is a shared responsibility and kissing is one of the many building blocks for happiness and success between a husband and wife.

May God bless you as you seek to take your marriage to the next level, step outside of your comfort zone and co-create the marriage and life of your dreams!

All good things,

Sensuous Sexy Greta™"

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